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Slavery vs. Sub [Nov. 1st, 2006|09:02 pm]
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1.) Vanilla Friend asked me to explain difference between being a slave & being a submissive.  Would folks please comment?

2.) My Dom asked me to internally check if there were aspects of slavery which pleased me, which we could incorporate into our Dom/sub dynamic.  Please comment?

3.) I've read a bit on the web (and experienced first hand... ouchy...) how Doms keep control of the 24/7 lifestyle even when they aren't physically present..  For instance, I get tasks.  Performing the task, getting ready to perform the task, obsessing about whether I did it right.... all keep my soul very focused.   Certainly eats up great quantities of the day.   Yet, I've been thinking, what can I do, as a sub, to keep the 24/7 dynamic flowing.  Any thoughts?  (I have my own and will share after I've heard back from  ya'll.)

4.) What does the impulse to slavery?  What does the impulse to submission feel like?   

Thanks ahead o' time for anything you bring to the table....

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(no subject) [Oct. 19th, 2006|09:01 pm]
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